Your Guide to Becoming a Master Pickup Artist

I have received many compliments and positive feedback on the effectiveness of this guide on how to get a girl to like you. Many people have put these tips into play and have seen their success. I put a lot of time into writing this article so I suggest you read all of it in order to get the most out of it. With that being said, lets get to the secrets on becoming a master pickup artist:

1) Don't Stall or Hesitate

This tip is crucial and probably the most important step in approaching women. If you hesitate you will get more nervous and she will probably see you working up your courage. With that being said, you should approach a woman within 3 to 5 seconds of seeing her without stalling. The best way I would approach women without stalling was to say to myself: "What's the worst that could happen? It's not like shes gonna slap me in the face as soon as I approach her..."

2) Start With an Opinion Opener

Opinion openers should constantly be changing (depending on where you and her are). If you are in a club you could use an opinion opener about how she likes the club compared to others in the area...If you are on the street you could ask her where some of her favorite places to eat are. Each situation is different than others but one thing to keep in mind is that good openers NEVER have a "yes" or "no" answer. Use an opener that requires some real talk. Make sure your openers are original...The last thing you want her to say is: "Wow I've heard this opener before..." If for some reason she does say this to you, just go with it and act sincere like you really do want her opinion on the question that you asked her. Keep in mind it is also good to SMILE confidently while talking to her. Smiles go a LONG way and speaks a lot about a person. If you have an ugly smile I would recommend seeing the dentist...Smiles can either be a huge turn-on or a huge turn-off.

3) Don't Ignore Her Friends

If she's with friends (usually they are), make sure you don't ignore them. Engage the entire group! This will not only show her that you are a sociable person but it will make her WANT to earn your attention as well. A simple: "Hi I'm [Your Name]" and maybe a handshake (depending on the vibes) to everyone in the group is a good place to start. Then get their opinions as well on the opinion that was discussed earlier in the previous tip.

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4) Body Language

Don't be the typical "annoying creepy guy" that goes up to a girl and stands up straight right in front of her asking her the same pickup line she's heard before. That is definitely not how to get a girl to like you. Instead, prove to her that you have value. Make her WANT to get to know you. The best way to do this is by doing what I'd like to call the "half-shoulder approach." This means that when you're talking to her you are at a fair distance (where she can still hear you) but periodically you turn your shoulder away to face the other direction acting like you are looking for your friends. Essentially you want to give her some attention, but then you want to give your attention elsewhere...This is also known as "body rocking." By doing so, she will think you have things to do and people to see (aka. that you have value)...Women love this, because they love to chase instead of being chased! If you go up to her and give her your full attention she might get creeped out and she won't feel like your a challenge at all. Women LOVE a good challenge...It's their nature.

5) Getting the Phone Number

After about 3 to 8 minutes of good chatting and chemistry (maybe even less, depending on the vibes you are receiving), you might want to move onto the next step of trying to get her phone number. However, I wouldn't recommend getting her phone number if she is still with her group of friends as this can be a bit awkward. If she seems comfortable with you, try and get her isolated from the group. If she isn't comfortable with you there is no reason to try and get her phone number, you have to win this from her in the 3 to 8 minutes you have. If you aren't getting the vibe that you will get her phone number then don't sweat it, tell her you are going to go back with your friends and you might see her around. However, if you are getting a good vibe, here are a couple good questions that I recommend using:

"Hey I gotta get back with my friends but I'd like to call you sometime, why don't you give me your phone number?"

"You seem like you'd be fun to hang out with, let me get your number."

"We should hang out sometime...." [Then Pause for her response, if she says: "YA! totally!"]...then its easy from there...just ask her for her number.

These ways of asking her are obviously pretty up-front ways and shows you are ultimately interested in her and want to get to know her better (which isn't a bad thing...its good that she knows that a guy that has value is interested in her)...that is what will make her answer the phone when you call her. If she thinks you're a player just looking to get action, chances are she won't answer your phone call. There is a thin line between being a player and a guy with confidence. Make sure you don't portray yourself as a player if you really on the look-out for a healthy relationship.

If you get turned down by a girl (and it will happen), the important thing to do is not let it get to you. You can't let a little thing like that break your confidence. One thing that helped me is to remember the guys that pickup the most girls in a club are the ones that also get turned down the most.

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