How To Get a Girl in Bed

Men all over the world struggle with dating, sex, and finding the woman they want to be with in a relationship. Men always want to know the best ways to get a girl in bed and this article will outline those methods. Let us get one thing straight, treating a woman with disrespect will not get her into your bed anytime soon. In fact, you will more than likely scare off that woman for good, as she will lose interest in you almost immediately. If you follow the tips in this article you should have no trouble getting a girl in bed sometime soon.

Be Suave and Debonair

Any man who is suave and debonair will surely be able to get a girl in bed. At the end of a date, before leaving the restaurant or the club, ask her if she would also like to go to somewhere quiet for a nice glass of wine and a chat. Ask her to suggest a place (so she can choose a place where she feels safe and relaxed - plus it helps divert her from giving a yes/no answer). This surely will get her in the mood or at least somewhat interested in you further. You might end up at your place, and who knows, you may have more than just a quiet chat!

Shyness Works

Shyness actually does work on some women. Use the following line, "I think if you let me I'm going to love kissing you". This line is 100 percent innocent but it does two important things: 1) it appoints her as the one who makes the decision - i.e. it makes her feel safe, she has an escape route, and 2) it starts getting her thinking about kissing you. This might just make your date assertive to the point where she starts to kiss you. Yes!

Classic Wins

Being a classic date wins almost 100 percent of the time. Tell her, in a gentle, quiet voice, that you would like to go somewhere quieter to further your date. Add in the opportunity for her to feel safe and have a handy excuse the next day for her friends if things get very steamy "...if you'd like to as well, you know, it's so noisy here... difficult to have a decent conversation..." And do make sure you do not say anything which is overly suggestive - nothing to which a positive response from her could be construed as showing she's "easy". She has a reputation to protect, you know, and you will more than likely strike out.

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Make it all about Her

When you are spending time with a woman, make sure you make it all about her, even though perhaps you desperately ache for something too! Some "gurus" say you must be the alpha-male type, confident and assertive. Perhaps so. Nonetheless, I have found that the more you make it about your date, like paying attention to what she says and being respectful of her opinions and preferences, allowing her to express herself freely and have a good time, the more she will become smitten with you and want to "take care of you" too.


Nonchalance during a date is always a good way to go with a woman. Ask her in passing if she has the house to herself. If she says yes, this shows that she has not totally ruled out going further with you and you have a good chance of going back to her place. If she says no, then you might want to try bringing her to your place...without placing undue emphasis on whether she comes or not. Never put her under pressure, or make her feel like you think she's easy meat. "Easy does it.." and appearing diffident is the name of the game. It gives her room to slowly persuade herself...

Playful and Fun Still Works

Being playful on a date, even though you are a man, still works with women today. Playfully ask her to make you breakfast the next morning, or whether she would mind putting out the cat for its morning constitutional. This starts her thinking about spending the night with you, without feeling any pressure.

If she says no to one of the items, such as the breakfast, it means she hasn't ruled out going home with you and you still have a shot at getting her in bed!

Spontaneity Does Not Hurt

Women love, absolutely love, spontaneity from men they are dating. This includes making the first move sexually on a date that is taking place in either person's house. One way to be spontaneous is to pick your date up over your shoulders and carry her to the bedroom or from the kitchen to the family room. If she starts screaming violently, she does not like it - so stop. If she playfully and laughingly tells you to put her down, keep going with the idea and see where it leads.

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