How to Get a Girl to Like You

Getting a girl to like you is actually quite easy. The trick is to be focused on first finding a girl that shows interest. Many guys get caught up on one girl. If the girl doesn't like you, you can't try to fight human nature. First you have to find a girl, be presentable, and be interesting. Once you have sparked the interest, many girls will like you and it will happen automatically. The trick is Getting enough girls interested in talking with you.

It's not always as easy as some people think, but it's usually never as hard as people try to make it sound. You just have to repeat a method a few times, and you will probably find success. But don't get ahead of yourself. You can't fight human nature. So you have to find things that work towards your advantage.

How do you get a girl to like you? You need to be different. Girls do not like plain and boring. They do like exciting and unique, and adventurous. First decide what you want. Do you want quite, or outgoing, blond or brunette. Try to get specific as you can about the type of girl you want. Then you need to find out what sort of things that girl likes. If you want an adventurous girl, you have no chance if you continue to "be yourself' if you are someone who is afraid of his own shadow.

You have to become the person that they want to be with. Then spend time doing the things they like to do with them. If climbing rocks gets their adrenaline going, and gets there heart pounding, and you go everyday to climb with them... they're going to associate those good feelings with you. The problem with many guys is they don't have enough girls to even show interest. Another common problem is they refuse to change. In either case, the solution is the same, approach and talk to lots of girls until you are more comfortable, and you can measure what tends to work more often then not in getting a girl interested in you.

Once a girl shows interest then you can get their number and start doing the things they like doing with them. Even if it's not with the girl you want to like you, you have to learn to practice, practice, and practice some more. Figure out what makes girls feel good (laugh), and what doesn't, and at what stages. You need to actually practice getting girls interest and attention, and that may mean failing a few times.

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The dating industry is a big business. There are thousands of products, and millions of people buy them every year. But don't expect girls to automatically be interested in meeting you if your approach is off regardless of what pheromone cologne you might use. The problem is no approach works all of the time, and no approach that has success when used by one guy will always produce the same result with someone else.

The solution to this problem is to actually try some things out. Don't just expect something to work every time, you have to try the same exact method several times. Only then can you assume it's not that effective for you personally in that environment. Change that method slightly and try again. Once you have found a method that gets girls interested, you just have to approach enough of them, until you find one that has enough in common, and who's feelings will grow until they really start to like you.

This may just be the beginning but it is a very crucial step. The method of trying, trying, and trying again, then using your feedback to change, and then trying and trying again until you have the right "formula" is almost a surefire method to getting girls to like you at least enough to show interest in taking the next step. Once you have that "formula", you can repeat it with the girl you want to attract, and the more you spend time with her, the more likely she is to develop an interest. That may seem like a long process, but it's different for everyone, some people are funny, others are strong+silent, and sometimes girls like different things, there's no surefire way to get a girl to like you that works for everyone.

Getting a girlfriend or just a casual relationship starts with getting a girl's interest, which starts with a good approach.

It's very common for people be afraid to try things if they don't know that it works, but the only way to know is to try it several times. You can't expect someone else to try a method and expect it to work for you. People with different personalities that aren't the same type of person aren't going to produce the same results. You can try a method from a starting point by copying someone else's method, but only testing it over and over again will verify if it works for you.

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