How To Get a Hot Girlfriend - 5 Action Steps

So, you want to know how to get a hot girlfriend. Here are 5 action to make sure you put yourself in the best position to get the lady you really want.

ONE: Be in places where there are women

How are you going to meet her if you are at the local sports bar and the only women are the bartenders? To meet her, she has to be there. You are better off going to internet dating sites, wine classes, dance classes, speed dating events, volunteering at your local animal shelter and more as venues where you have a chance to actually run into the woman of your dreams.

TWO: Be YOUR best

Yes, I know the pizza joint delivers 2 pies for 10 bucks in less than a half hour but when your belly explodes over your belt, does that put you in the best position to attract her? No, you do not have to be a male fitness model but being that we are a physical and visual society, and the more in shape you are, the better off you will be. Remember, dating is like sales. You might attract 10 women out of 100 if you are out of shape but you could up that ratio to 30 out of 100 if you get more fit. You will have a much better chance to sell 1 out of 30 than you do to sell 1 out of 10.

It goes without saying that you should have stylish clothes, clean teeth and take care of your hair, nails and other grooming areas.

THREE: Devil may care is GOOD

If she is hot, she knows it. Not in a bad way. Yes, you might run into the egotistical girl that thinks her beauty gives her a ticket to whatever behavior she chooses to present, but you do not want her anyway. Throwing the egomaniacs out of the equation, women that are hot, at least know they are attractive, and that guys want them.

You will be DIFFERENT because you will give the vibe that you could take her or leave her. The best example I can give is that you should be like a duck. You know how ducks look smooth going across the water like they do not have a care in the world, but if you look underneath the surface, they are paddling like mad to make it all happen?

Yes, you might be dying inside because you really want her, but outside you will be cool like you are not attracted to her that much anyway.

FOUR: Be a challenge!

This dovetails on your "devil may care" attitude. If she is hot, how many guys do you think are falling all over themselves trying to get near to her? How many gifts is she getting? How many times does she give her number only to have her cell phone blow up with texts the next day (or that night)?

You, my friend, will call 5-9 days after getting her number. You will be cool on dates letting her do most of the talking, you will not indicate any future dates while you are on a date. You will keep her guessing as to whether or not you actually like her. You will not give her gifts or compliments (outside of "you look nice" when you pick her up and "I had a fun time" when you drop her off). You cannot buy her affection!

If she does not respond to challenge, she is either structured or not that interested in you anyway. Better to find out sooner rather than later.

FIVE: Remember, it is you that is HOT

Yes, she might have the look you want but remember, if she is out with you, then you passed her physical attraction test too (unless she is a professional dater and you can weed that type out by trying to kiss them by date 2 because they always turn their heads when you go in for the lip lock).

Since you passed her physical attraction test and you know you are a different guy that really knows how to treat women then she should want you and be chasing you.

"I do not need her but she needs me," should be your mantra!

Remember guys, if you want to know how to get a hot girlfriend, then it all starts with putting yourself in the best position to meet and keep her!


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