How To Get A Woman To Like You - Have Something Better To Do!

If you want to know how to get a woman to like you, you need to understand that women love people of passion in their lives.

If every day of your life is just about picking up girls, you're not going to be very attractive because you will not have that drive -- that passion that gets you through each day excited.

Sure, the thrill of finding interesting and sensual company can be a source of passion, but it can't be your only one.

You don't want to be one-dimensional and boring. Women can't stand a man without drive and without things that make them interesting.

Actually, who can?

Everybody likes to be with well-rounded people, that have that special spark, right?

The people we like the most are the ones we want to be like - or at least we want to experience some of the same things as they do.

You and your tribe.

Every one of us is part of the tribe and we represent that tribe by who we are. When women see you, they recognize instantly what tribe you are from, and they either want to be part of it, or not. It doesn't matter how much you know about how to get a woman to like you. They'll make that choice subconsciously.

Let me give you an example:

Let's say you love scuba diving. You talk about it constantly with all your friends, you get excited whenever you go try out a new lake or maybe just go play in the ocean.

You talk about your hobby with passion and everyone loves to listen to you.

If you talk to girls, and you demonstrate that passion to them, they will be hypnotized by you. They will realize that being with you is fun. They will realize that you belong to the tribe where people have fun and they will love to be part of that same tribe.

In other words, they will love to have fun with you.

See what I'm trying to say?

You are attractive to women because you are doing something unique. Not only that, but you're passionate about it and dedicated to it.

It's especially irresistible because you have fun and surround yourself with people who do too. How can any woman resist that?

Everyone wants to be where the fun is happening. That's just a fact of life.

By getting to join your tribe, they get access to all of that fun and excitement they're seeing and hearing about.

They get better access to you, too.

The fact that they're going to learn something new that they will really enjoy is almost secondary to what it can do to your connection or relationship.

To her this is something you are sharing with her and it's really special. It doesn't even matter if you know how to get a woman to like you.

You've brought her into something you enjoy and are giving her some of that enjoyment in turn.

Once she explores your world a little and finds it irresistible, which will always happen if you're an interesting person, It will bring you very close together.

On a more casual basis it just makes you more attractive to her, which is not too bad, is it?

Have stuff going on. If you don't already, find something.

So, again, you have to have something better to do in your life then picking up women.

Of course, I know you love women and they are important to you, or you wouldn't be here, but if that's all you are about, it is going to be hard for you to succeed with them.

What is it that really turns you on besides women?

What gets you excited, interested and on the edge of your seat?

Of course, some of what you may enjoy may not come off all that well.

Maybe you enjoy bird watching. Only a specific type of girl is going to find that the height of excitement, right?

However, it doesn't matter that you've got a relatively low-key passion or hobby. What matters is that you feel something about it. That you go out and do it. You bring that passion everywhere with you. It makes you a deeper, more interesting person and...

...there's nothing more romantic than watching birds soar through the sky!

You're more than just a guy who is desperate to learn how to get a woman to like you. You have a spark in your life that the women you want will be attracted to. If you don't know what it is yet, discover it.

It's quite simple.

Here's how to do it.

Okay, let's say you don't have any ideas as to what to do in order to make yourself a more well-rounded, driven person.

You know you need to inject some passion into your life, but you don't know where to start.

The first thing you should do is take an inventory of...

...what you like.

Forget about learning how to get a woman to like you for a moment. Do you like music? What kind? What singers or instrumentalists give you chills?

Then you can base a list of things you can do around that. For example, if you love music, why don't you take up the guitar? Join a band? Become an avid concert-goer? If there is something that can get you out of the house, get you into an excited mindset, and can give you more to do than just lust after women all the time, do it.

What are you already good at?

Are you good with your hands? Try tinkering around and building something. Work on a car. Build a house if you know how.

Do something, man!

Go for it.

Seriously. I don't care how random you think that something that gets you stoked is. Don't be lazy or hem and haw over it. You have to start somewhere.

If you try a few things and they just don't click for you, that is fine.

You aren't going to fall in love with or be great at everything you try. You thought you always wanted to rock climb, but it turns out you're afraid of heights - so what?

You can always try, and get over it, but the easier and more sensible thing to do is to find something else to focus on.

The more you have going for you, the better.

You have more to talk about and more to share with a girl (and really anybody) when you have hobbies and passions. When you have a life.

That's really what this is, isn't it? Your life is a collection of responsibilities, people, and hobbies - memories, which can all be turned into stories.

The more you have going on in your life, the more stories you have. It's one thing to sit down and talk to a woman about what you do. That's just a boring list.

Oh, I run marathons is a pretty cool thing to say to a girl, but it doesn't have the same depth as telling her an exciting, personal story about your experience in one of the marathons. Do you see the difference here?

I hope you got the picture.

I can't help you if you aren't willing to change your ways and shake things up a little. You're not going to have any better luck in dealing with women if you don't make an effort to bring some spark into your life. That's what women want, and honestly it's what you should want for yourself.

Get out there and find something that makes you a happier, cooler, more versatile person. Finding that passion in life should be the most important to you and if it is, learning how to get a woman to like you will be a piece of cake.


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