How To Ask a Girl Out The Right Way

Learning how to ask a girl out in a way that is stylish, relaxed, confident and comfortable is usually a great challenge for most men. It can also become one of life's most rewarding challenges when done properly (regardless of the outcome). Guys sometimes make the mistake of not asking out of fear of failure and fail to realize that women enjoy being noticed.

Even if she says no it is a great compliment to her that someone showed an interest, always remember that. Let's get clear, your aim is to create attraction with her, this is all you need to do (again regardless of the end result). If she says no, but she is attracted to you then you have succeeded.

If she is attracted to you and you know it, how easy would it be for you to ask her out again at another, possibly more appropriate time? If she is attracted to you then nothing she can do will change this, she cannot become un-attracted to you it's not possible. Your aim and only aim should be to learn the skill of building sexual attraction with women, everything else will naturally fall into place.

Rule number one: Attachment to the outcome is for wimps.

So now that we have that out of the way here is an example of three different ways you can ask a girl out.

1. Ask- "would you like to go out with me" This is the worst way it's lame "asking" sends a strong message that you are not relaxed right from the start.

2. Suggest- "Hey, give us a bell and we'll catch up sometime" Much better, it's relaxed it doesn't sound like a high pressure thing and she will feel more comfortable.

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3. Tell her your plans and invite her: "Hey, this is what I'm doing, you should come along" This is more specific, more fun (if you do it right) and still relaxed and comfortable. It also demonstrates that you already have a life and that you can take control of a situation.

Confidence is paramount, confidence is not something that you have it's something that you CREATE. Can you think back and remember times when you were more confident then other times. You can create this state of mind before you approach women, (get warmed up).

There is a big difference between appearance and looking good or having an attractive face. Anyone can present themselves in a clean, smart well kept and well presented manner. Men are more attracted physically level and usually make the mistake of assuming that women are the same, they're not. Women are more complex. For women looks are only one of the factors, one of many. This is a massive advantage for all men, it is gods gift to YOU as a man. Charm, confidence and attraction skills (which are learned skills by the way) give any man massive options with almost all women and an unfair advantage over almost all men.

Girls are attracted to confidence, humor, fun, smiles, attitude, excitement intelligence etc. If you can make her smile then you're 90% there. If she is smiling then she is having fun and feeling comfortable. If she is having fun then that means that YOU are fun and fun is attractive. You should always wait for an appropriate time to ask a girl out.

Build a bond first, the best time to ask a girl out is after she has become sexually attracted to you. If you don't know how to create sexual attraction with a woman then you absolutely must learn. This is the single most important thing that will change any man's life permanently. If you have a woman attracted to you and you know from her subtle little smile, eye contact, body language, head movements, neck, hair touching ETC.

Then asking her out casually is easy and natural, actually at this point it would be inappropriate NOT to ask her out (think about that) If you go to the effort to flirt with her and build some chemistry she will expect you to ask her. This is when you just make a casual suggestion to catch up or tell her your plans and "invite" her along.


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