Stop Dropping the Ball When it Comes to Attracting Women

OK, if you're reading this your well on your way to stop being some bumbling fool when it comes to attracting women you desire.

I'm going to be very blunt so if your easily offended I couldn't care less. The most common hurdle for most guys is fear of rejection, its like this crippling emotion that sets in just at the mere thought of approaching the beautiful brunette you see.

Why? I'll tell you.

You have not found your critical factor that makes you uniquely you. Il explain what I mean by this.

Yeah there are loads of fancy techniques to attract women get there numbers then get them into bed however, without the critical factor it means nothing, your just another nerd trying to get a women way out of your league.

Now I know your a really sweet guy who just wants a women to like him and you'll give her the whole world before she even sleeps with you. Wake up mate, what world are you living in. Your just giving away your power and leaving yourself open to get dropped like a ton of bricks.

Do you really think a women you just met gives a flying fish about you. Your words mean nothing at the moment, at this moment how you conduct yourself is way more important than what you say.

Let me say this again.

How you conduct yourself is way more important than what you say. Il give you a real life example. I was in a club in London chilling out with a few of my boys, were dancing and joking around as usual then down the stairs comes a few girls.

Now there were a couple really hot girls but one was just plain smoking. So what do I do, I acknowledge then ignore. So I'm still dancing and having fun and I notice a bunch of guys start hovering around this girl and her friends like flies on you know what.

Automatically all of these guys have made a fatal mistake, there showing this girl how hot she is by floating around her like a fairy and giving this girls ego an extra boost. So now this girl is in a position of power she can have any of those guys at the click of a finger.

Do you really think she finds that attractive even if the guys are her taste. No way!

In fact, in her mind at that moment she's disappointed because these guys have displayed the same flaw that 99.9% of guys do. Give away to much to early. OK, so now I see an opportunity because those nerds have failed and they don't even know it yet.


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I see one of her friends go to the bar, and i approach the friend. Politely I say "look tell your girl I'm not looking for marriage sex or a girlfriend, just let her know id like to introduce myself in a less active environment." There was loads of bars in this place and the one i was at was pretty quiet.

Your probably such an imbecile you didn't even understand the implications of my words to her friend. I said I don't want to get her in to bed, marriage or a girlfriend I have totally eliminated all subject matters that women think men are approaching them for.

Women would not actually think that just at the sight of them we actually like them. No.

That's just impossible.

So i turn my back to the dance floor and start talking to the barmaid, i said to her if I have played this correctly there should be a really hot girl walking up behind me could you let me know if shes coming.

As soon as I said that the barmaid gave me a heads up. The girl taps me on the shoulder, looks at me and says "you don't want marriage sex or a girlfriend so what do you want" -- At this point shes waiting for the chat up line or some cheesy comment.

I tell her "Look I'll make this real simple for you (you would of loved to see the look on her face when I said that) anyway, lets skip the pleasantries like how you doing, where your from, what school you went to and all that rubbish, I really couldn't careless.

I'm out enjoying the night with my friends I want to get back to the dance floor with my mates and party the night away however I fancy going for lunch tomorrow and I want you to join me so put your number in my phone and I'll see you tomorrow."

She kind of looked at me in shock like is this guy for real, she still put her number in the phone and i left her at the bar with a drink I pre ordered for her and ignored her the rest of the night. I hope you see the difference between those nerds on the dance floor and the way i conducted myself, for each situation there is away to go about dealing with it.

Not only that, those wannabes on the dance floor came up to me and said how did you do that bro, I simply said "I did the exact opposite of what you did." Not at any point did I tell her how hot she was or what a great body she has. She knows this already.

You have to be bold and not care. Now I'm not saying don't care about women that's just silly. What i mean by not caring is not giving a damn about her response whether she excepts or rejects you.

Just move on, there is a sea of beautiful women out there waiting to find you but the fish are not going to jump into your net. Well that happens to.

So stop fumbling around like some teenager about to pop his cherry and grow a pair. Jump out of that box your in even if it means you embarrass yourself, its all part of your critical factor. Guys like shaped bodies and big bums, well I do anyway. Women like personality traits, that girl in the club was attracted to my bold cheek and forwardness its that simple.

If you continue doing what most of those guys in the club are, your a moron, if your listening to guys who don't get women at will your an even bigger fool than they are. Find your critical factor, what makes you different than all the other guys out there.

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