Importance of Smiling When Attracting Women



"Life is like a mirror, we get the best results when we smile at it".

Of all the things you do when you approach a person, your smile is the most important. Happiness is often the motivating cause of a smile and if you approach a group while smiling, you will come across as relaxed, confident and fun. Also, most smiles are started by another smile as whatever you project to a person emotionally; they will generally project it back to you.

Thus, if you can succeed in getting the group to smile and laugh in the first few seconds with you then you have successfully started the interaction and have made everybody in the group feel good.

The secret to how to attract women is to have a "giving" rather than a "taking" attitude. A smile costs nothing but gives much. It adds value to the group. It enriches those who receive and you use far less muscles than you do to frown. It takes a moment but is often the deciding factor on whether the group accept you or not. People are out in the bar to relax, have fun and enjoy themselves.

Approaching the group without a smile is by far the biggest mistake that beginners make when they first begin working on this area of their lives. You only get one chance to make a first impression so use your smile. The more you make the group smile, the more easily you can build attraction with them. Everyone smiles in the same language and you never know who's falling in love with your smile.

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By smiling, you will also have a positive effect on your own psychology. Many people feel that if you smile you are letting your guard down and it takes some of your power away. While smiling does show a little vulnerability, that makes it even more effective and powerful. The world always appears to be brighter when you smile.

You will begin to think more positively and it will really help to put you in state. If you are having trouble smiling or you are simply not in a good mood, try laughing as this will easily transition into a smile. Picture something that made you laugh hysterically and that memory will help fuel a full blown smile. Have you ever heard the phrase:

"Smile and the whole world smiles with you"

Not just any smile will do. You need to learn how to develop a genuine, infectious smile that can make people like you the moment they meet you and cause every group you approach to welcome you. Learn to develop your smile. You don't need perfect teeth to achieve a fantastic smile but they certainly do help. Keep your teeth clean. Regularly brushing your teeth and making sure your breath is fresh are some prerequisites to a good smile. If your teeth are less than white, get them cleaned or professionally polished.

Use your eyes to smile. People are only starting to finally realize that the eyes may actually be more essential to a warm, genuine smile than smiling with your mouth. To smile with your eyes, you slightly raise your cheekbones and lower your eyebrows, to give your eyes that twinkling effect. To become good at smiling with your eyes, practice smiling in front of a mirror, concentrating only on your eyes.

Cover your mouth with your hand so you can only see your eyes. Practice smiling with your mouth only and your eyes only. Soon you will become aware of the muscles used to make your eyes smile and begin to use them every time you smile.

The secret is to approach while the smile is already on your lips and twinkling in your eyes before you make eye contact. It will seem natural when it is conveyed as how you are and not as something you do. If you open the group, make eye contact and then smile, you may come across as awkward and fake.

The person will feel uncomfortable and you will not come across as a confident, fun guy but rather as somebody who has put her on the spot. If you approach and you already smiling or laughing, and you suddenly catch a person's eye, they will return your smile as, just like yawning, smiles are contagious.

"Smile - sunshine is good for your teeth"

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